Friday, April 10, 2026

When Life Gives You Flowers.

I think the best part about April are the surprises that show up. When the lilac is doing its job of quietly blooming in the part of the yard I rarely go, and then there it is the sweetest smell and the lovely flowers just blooming for all they are worth. I was telling my daughter why its so hard to take pictures here. At our other place, the light was this buttery golden color. I loved the light. I couldn't stay away from it. I would look out the window and all of the light would be calling me to come and see it I could capture it with my camera. 

I don't want to say that the sun is wrong here. But it is. At my other house and all of the other houses I lived in before, they faced the rising of the sun in the morning and the sun setting in the back of the house in the evening. Here this house is sort of north/south,east. When the wind blows it goes around and around as do the clouds. The sun never glows like it did because I can only see it if I stand on something. Its things like that I have never noticed before and I sit and think about it. Especially, in the morning as I try to see the sun come up, but I can't unless I go stand on the end of the driveway like a weirdo and look to the sunrise.

Its spring and of course, my mind turns to chicks. I have even thought about sneaking off to Tractor Supply to look at them. I had a friend that lived in New York City and they were from another country and she said, that when they moved to New York, her mom kept three hens under her kitchen sink. I guess that is kind of like Robert Lee who kept a chicken with him while he was on the battlefield when he was in the War of Northern Aggression. ( I read that in a book, I had never heard that before.) I don't know if I could keep them under my kitchen sink.

This is our Comfrey growing in our garden. Aren't the little flowers with tiny bells sweet? Most amazing plant ever. Which reminds me, we will be celebrating our 46th wedding anniversary this weekend. What a incredible and fast 46 years! I told Ron today, thank you for putting up with me these 46 years. He said, that I had to put up with him too. We are agreed its been way more interesting that we originally anticipated. He was going to be a songwriter and we were going to live life out of a hippy van on the beach. We were going to ride off into the sunset and live happily ever after. I am so glad we didn't end up living out of a van on the beach.  We had such a normal, fun life. If you can say, that homeschooling six kids for 25 years, and having 15 grand children. Well you know.  

I am certainly glad that I am right here, right now. Even if the light isn't always golden, the days are mostly full of smiles and dreams that are beyond anything that I ever thought of and life does like life does, it sneaks up and surprises me when I least expect it and laughter is always around every corner. 

Thank you for stopping by to read my rambles. 

Happy April,

~Kim~
 

 
 

 


 
 

8 comments:

Saundra said...

Beautiful garden you have going there. Oh yes, what unrealistic fanciful thoughts of love and marriage we had when young. Eventually we all, hopefully, grow up, lol. Happy Anniversary. Saundra

TheCrankyCrow said...

Happy Anniversary sweet friend! That is an impressive amount of time to be together. I laughed about the van/beach life part. Given what I know of your life, that is not what I would have guessed in a million years. While I never thought about it that way, I know exactly what you mean when you say the “sun isn’t right here.” I notice light it seems more and more as time goes on. But, funny, the front of my house faces due north and the back south. I’m not up early enough most days to catch the sunrise but the sunsets are beautiful even though my house faces mostly the same as yours. I can’t believe your lilacs are in bloom! They are one of my most favorite plants. It will be a while here. My tulips haven’t even braved poking their fingers through the ground. And are those sweet peas in the last photo???!!! Sweet peas are also a favorite of mine but they don’t grow well for me here sadly. One of the last years that I tried growing them they did fairly well…until they were ready to bloom…and the rabbits got them. Grrrr. (And that was when Snowdog was here to keep the rabbits at bay.) After that, I gave up. Hope you do something special to celebrate your anniversary!

R's Rue said...

Happy anniversary. Hope you have a wonderful Sunday.
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Rugs and Pugs said...

Happiest of anniversaries and may you and Ron be blessed with many more. Like Robin, I cannot picture you as a nomad hippie! Homeschooling for 25 years is very impressive. It takes someone very special to do that!
Even though you say the light is not right, you still take beautiful flower pictures ♥️

Bonnie K said...

Congratulations! What a wonderful milestone. That is what I love about blogging. People celebrate the good things, while most other social media is focused on the negative. I've never grown comfrey. What do you use it for? I'm sorry you cannot see the sunrises or the sunsets. The sun rises in our bedroom window and sets in our living room window. I absolutely love the colors and don't know if I could handle not seeing them.

Gretchen Joanna said...

I'm envious of you with your lilacs! But sorry about the different experience of sunlight -- that is very interesting, though...

Congratulations on your anniversary! Glory to God for the way He has kept and nurtured you and given you grace to be parents and grandparents, and to sacrifice for others, including each other. May God bless your next many years together.

Coloring Outside the Lines said...

Oh, Happy Anniversary!!! We are working on our 50th this year, and although I want it to be special, I feel it will be just another one, like all the rest :) Your flowers are so pretty and I do feel for you about the sun. My sunset view is hidden behind a pine tree plantation. If I want to see it I have to get in my car and drive or stand in the highway in front of my house to get a photo. So, yeah...annoying!!

Connie said...

Happy Anniversary! Your garden is looking lovely, I think that you are a couple of weeks ahead of us in your growing season . . . I keep telling myself that warm weather is right around the corner :)